Friday, May 25, 2018

Selfie


Selfie
Focus
It's all about the Source, focusing on beautiful faith
The assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen
Promises of life, and life more abundant
Love, joy, peace
Laughter
Cheerful countenance reflecting a merry heart
Good medicine
Hope
Health
New songs in a fresh heart
Open
Receptive
Looking up
Smiling

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

Live Whole


“Do not love half lovers
Do not entertain half friends
Do not indulge in works of the half talented
Do not live half a life
and do not die a half death
If you choose silence, then be silent
When you speak, do so until you are finished
Do not silence yourself to say something
And do not speak to be silent
If you accept, then express it bluntly
Do not mask it
If you refuse then be clear about it
for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance
Do not accept half a solution
Do not believe half truths
Do not dream half a dream
Do not fantasize about half hopes
Half a drink will not quench your thirst
Half a meal will not satiate your hunger
Half the way will get you no where
Half an idea will bear you no results
Your other half is not the one you love
It is you in another time yet in the same space
It is you when you are not
Half a life is a life you didn't live,
A word you have not said
A smile you postponed
A love you have not had
A friendship you did not know
To reach and not arrive
Work and not work
Attend only to be absent
What makes you a stranger to them closest to you
and they strangers to you
The half is a mere moment of inability
but you are able for you are not half a being
You are a whole that exists to live a life
not half a life”
― Kahlil Gibran

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Hope Floats


Embracing the now, excited for then...

Letting go of what was.

Just me.

Here.



Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Avoidance - No


I am sure you've heard the saying "Wherever you go, there you are."  This is even more applicable to that from which one attempts to run.  Attempting to avoid the truth? It will find you.  A person can attempt to run, avoid, dodge, or side-step... but those issues will meet you wherever you go.  Lessons unlearned will circle back around, time and again, until one gives in and learns what is begging to be taught. 

Many long for a "fresh start," and it is understandable.  However, if that fresh start includes leaving bad habits undealt with, or unpleasant consequences for personal actions or decisions, or the reaping of what one has sown...?  They will not remain unsatisfied, and will meet you wherever you "start fresh."

Trying to jump past the pain of a breakup? to avoid the healing process and stages of grief, and jump right to "healed?"  Nope.  It must be experienced.  As Robert Frost states above, "The only way out is through."  Denial?  No. Hiding? No. Avoidance? No.  It must be gone through.  The process depends on attitude, approach, and whether one embraces the pain of change.

Going through it sucks.  No doubt about it.
But the only way out is through.

The question really is... what character will you gain on the other side?


Thursday, May 10, 2018

Learning...

No longer what I was before,
but not all that I will be.
Here.
In the now.
Standing on the past.
Reaching for the future.
But fully present.
Here.

Change is hard.
First comes the choice.
Ownership.
No fingers pointing.
No blameshifting.
No excuse-making.
Accountable for MY choices.
Not those of others.
Owning MY reactions.

Self-awareness is a choice.
Holding one's conscience softly.
Listening.
Seeing, truly seeing.
Open to truth, no matter how painful.
Sometimes the dam has to break violently in order to release what's been trapped behind walls.
All the ugly, the bruised, the perverse...
Then comes the rebuilding.
Comes peace.
Comes healing.
Realization.
Growth.

Before myself, I stand or fall.
Before my God, I stumble humble and rise.

Ever.
Learning.